If your relationship feels like an emotional rollercoaster and you’re questioning if you’re too broken for love…
You are exactly where you need to be.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Is Childhood Trauma Sabotaging Your Relationship?
Find out what is getting between you and a loving relationship, and what you can do about it.
It’s exhausting, isn’t it?
Long conversations trying to repair but only feeling worse after, the shame spirals, the constant worrying about how to show up moment to moment and if that comment you are about to say will destroy the rest of the day…it’s exhausting.
You’re trying all the right things–the self-help books, communication skills, maybe even therapy– yet your relationship is still hanging by a thread and you feel sick to your stomach even thinking about it.
It's so easy to believe that a healthy relationship just isn't in the cards for you.
What if I were to tell you that the emotional rollercoaster is not about any deficiency on your part? What if I told you that you are experiencing little progress because you are fighting the wrong battle?
You are fully capable of having a loving relationship, you just need to know the right battle to fight.
So take the quiz below and find out today if trauma is getting between you and a healthy relationship with your partner.
Hi, I’m Christie
I know what it feels like to grow up in chaos and call it normal.
Narcissism, addiction, and emotional volatility shaped how I moved through the world and how I disconnected from myself just to get through.
My trauma was destroying my relationships and I had no idea. I tried everything–being less sensitive or emotional, testing out the most highly revered communication skills, and trying to just “behave better.”
I was so incredibly discouraged. Nothing was bringing the breakthrough my soul was desperate for. I thought I was too broken for love and was getting ready to give up on myself and my dream to be married and have a family.
It wasn’t until someone was able to identify trauma as the key issue coming between me and my partner that a whole path of healing unfolded before me. Suddenly there was movement and I had a path to walk that brought practical shifts in my relationships.
Over time, I found myself gravitating to big adventures and while it started as pushing myself to my limits (hello survival skills!) it ended up becoming my doorway to healing.
See, the thing was, I wasn’t defective– I was just fighting the wrong battles.
Now I walk alongside people like you and help them get to the root of what’s happening in their relationship so they can discover deep, real healing.
Because friend, you are not defective. Love is waiting for you. We just need to find the right path for you.
I’m here to be that person who will step into the muck with you, and together we will put one foot in front of the other shedding what no longer serves you and inviting back to you the safety, joy, and connection your soul longs for.
